Celeblog: Nikki Giavasis Reveals The Truth On Killer Bobby Cutts, Jr.
Actress Nikki Giavasis is an amazing woman and a strong fighter against domestic violence. She is also the very first person I interviewed for ZeroGossip.com. Our paths crossed following the horrific story of Jessie Davis and her unborn daughter Chloe, both murdered at the hands of police officer Bobby Cutts, Jr. Years prior, Nikki had dated Cutts. Today, she reveals the truth behind this monster in her blog.
I can finally reveal some serious truth that I had to wait til now to say. Now that the book and movie are set, I can finally say what I've been wanting to say (and of course what those closest to my family have known).
During the case in which the former cop killed his pregnant girlfriend Jessie and unborn daughter Chloe, I was the first person to reveal the truth about that man that nobody wanted to admit or believe was possible. As soon as I heard she was missing, I immediately contacted authorities and I spoke to some of the hordes of media that immediately contacted me. After a week, I'd revealed everything I knew to FBI and other authorities but I chose to stop granting media interviews. I'd been dealing with that man and I knew his darker side. When I'd seen the red flags, I chose to break off the relationship, yet, he refused to let go. He continued his harassment and abuse for almost 11 years. He went so far as to attempt to steal my daughter when she was a baby, threaten to write books about me, and threaten to expose who her REAL FATHER was. Yes, I said REAL FATHER. That man was NEVER her father and HE KNEW that he wasn't. What is shocking is that he was allowed to go so far with his abusive attempts to hurt me and therefore, hurt my children. He never lived with me at any point in time. That was never true. He broke into my home when I was with my boyfriend (also much publicized) and he went to jail. I was urged not to press charges and to let him go on with his life because he was ordered to have no contact with me. If I knew then what I know now! He was charged with criminal trespassing and got 3 years of probation. A horrible fact is that he repeated his behavior with the same charge in the double murder case. Before all that started, everything had been fine. My daughter and her father spent time together and there were no issues. Once I learned the murderer was going to attempt to steal her again, I filed another restraining order. His response was to file for custody. This seemed absurd as he had no child support, visitation, etc in place because he obviously wasn't her dad. Little did I know that he would pull strings with the people he knew threw law enforcement and the judicial system (including the guardian ad litem which was his friend, prosecutor, psychologist, etc) and he found a way to get a week of visitation with my daughter. During that time, he stole my daughter. It took almost 7 months to get her back. He abused her verbally, emotionally, and physically. I reported everything to child protective services, the attorneys, the sheriffs, guardian ad litem, etc. Nothing was done. CPS interviewed my daughter in front of him. The judge sat on the case the entire time until he was found guilty of double murder. The entire situation was insane. My daugher was home safe and sound and then things crumbled. His facade of pretending he was a happy family crumbled. It had been revealed in court about his swinger status, cheating on his wife, etc. He even claimed my daughter on his taxes several times in order to get money. His wife supported him. His family supported him. It became more and more apparent that abusers have two personalities. The public one is so believable that people think that the abusive side is impossible. I felt sorry for his wife. I felt sorry that during the trial, he explained his son as the result of a one night stand. Obviously that was not true as he would have had a daughter by the same woman two years after painting the relationship as a one night stand. Now that was a very long story and the good news is that we are safe and we are now blessed with the spectacular opportunity of helping girls and women around the world who have been or are victims of abuse and domestic violence. I say all that to say, if you are a victim or being mistreated in any way, make a plan to get help and get out. 1-800-799-SAFE can help you. I will keep you in my prayers and feel free to contact me if you need help or advice.God bless,
Nikki 
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